Men as Victims of Abuse

I had a very intense conversation with a male friend of mine, about women who abuse men.  I know this happens, how frequently, I don’t think anyone really knows.  There are statistics, I’m sure.  But, just like women who are being abused, and never tell.  Men are keeping quiet too.  After all, as a man, it’s embarrassing to let people know a woman is kicking your butt.  But, just like women, men will stay in that situation-hoping things will change.

I know several men in situations of being abused, one emotionally and one physically.  Both guys are nice, just looking for love, but they seem to attract women who use and abuse them.  Why?

As I explain in my book, Run for your Life, from the Love of Your Life,  a Woman’s Rescue and Recovery Guide. Which I wrote for women, but I explain that men have the exact same issues.  Like women, men can be; over givers, needing help or rescue and they attract, like bees to honey, women who like to take advantage of them.  It’s like I tell women, if you want to break the cycle of abuse and release the pattern of abusive relationships, you must feel you deserve better.  And to feel deserving, you must have a strong self-love and self-worth instinct.  An abuser is repelled by a person who loves themselves.  They know you won’t put-up with their nonsense.

So, to all the men out there who are in abusive relationships with a woman you, “think” you love.  My book is for you too.  Find unconditional love in yourself–first–and you’ll find the woman of your dreams.

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I am new to blogging but not new to writing. I want my blog to have the affect people need to hear.
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